Assalamualaikum!
I believe many of us now have an ask.fm account, where people can ask any questions to us using their own name or be an anonymous. I, too have an ask.fm account which I re-created in April. The old one has been deleted in November last year. The good thing about this social network is 1. people can ask questions about anything, to us. and 2. people who are shy to show themselves, can be an anonymous. But they can still ask questions to us.
BUT,
The bad side about this thing is, people can send us threats, hates and even ask inappropriate questions. Well, everything has its own pros and cons kan? Betul ke tidak? And since people can opt to be an anon, they tend to ask sensitive questions just to humiliate us, because we can never know who they are. W-wow! It's crazy how this thing works, no? Bayangkan, kita boleh tnya apa apa je kt sesiapa yg ada acc ask.fm ni. Rasa bebas kan???? Haa that's where the negativity comes from... Aiyerrr
If you want to ask anything, ESPECIALLY sensitive questions, you might as well show yourself, so that things like defamation and demeaning won't happen. It's better for you to be true, just tunjukkan diri kita, supaya tak nmpk shady and suspicious kan? I'm pretty sure if you ask nicely, people will tell you what you want to know IF they want to answer. If they don't, jangan pula pegi bash ckp kita ni snobbish lah apa lah. Not everything we can share to people right? Especially bila acc ask.fm tu mmg open to public. Ada masa yang kita can be transparent, and ada masanya kita kena reserve ourselves, just to avoid any fitnah.
Jadi lepas ni tanyalah dengan berhemah, jgn ada perasaan yang tersinggung. In sha Allah, if we follow our adab on social media, we can get the best of both worlds. Gitu...
Till then, xx
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